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You Get What You Allow.

I f you don't know, let me tell you, romantic relationships in 2021 are not for the weak. Truthfully, if I'm going to be brutally honest, relationships have never been easy. The saying "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" is certainly more than a notion. But it goes even deeper than that. We all come into relationships with emotional baggage, history of failed relationships, upbringing, preconceived ideas, unspoken expectations, etc. There should be no surprise why most relationships that are started with the best of intentions usually fail miserably. Whether the relationship looks like a fairytale or it's as toxic as they come, the simple truth is you get what you allow.   3 years ago, my husband and I finally separated after a 7-year rocky marriage. To his credit he could be  extremely giving, helpful, and supportive, There are many things that I would not have accomplished without having him by my side. So what was the proble m   in the marriage? Was th